Here is what I have to say, OhhKay!

Alright, you wanna know why life isn't fantasy, why this reality sucks so much. Because if this was just fantasy where good always wins it would be pretty boring. Honestly problems make us stronger, and well you deal and get over them. 

There is a guy I work with, who is pretty socially awkward, but I am still nice to him. I just don't like spending every second of my day with him. 

People are human beings, hey who would have thought that, people have feelings, well that's another no brainer, so if you really want to get to know someone, stop judging them honestly, be nice to them and ask them how their day was. 

If you know that one subject hurts someone, then hey don't dance around that subject when that person is in the room. 

Be nice to people and if they aren't nice to you keep being nice, because then when things really come out, you don't have to feel guilty knowing that you were mean to someone who has problems that brew underneath the surface, that and that person will prolly appreciate it a lot more.